You, you and YOU!
To all of you, the lurkers and the frequent commentors and everyone in between, Thank You! I'm home safe and sound AND I have a job (I think). I'll be posting more tomorrow, but for now please know that all the virtual hugs are appreciated. Two "real life" friends contacted me just to be fabulous friends, another friend or two wished me well before the trip. One person in particular didn't contact me at all. She knew what I was doing and when, but didn't say a word. My feelings are a bit hurt by this, because even if you're busy with life, it only takes a second to call/text/email and give support. Stupid fucking people. *sigh*(If you're reading this blog-it's not you I'm bitching about I promise)
On a good note, burying my father was wonderful. Teary, weepy and so good for the soul. After holding on to his ashes for the last year and a half, it was time to honor his request to be buried in Colorado. I feel closure and healed and like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. My dad is buried in a beautiful cemetery with a babbling stream and ponds filled with frogs and cattails and a huge fish. We walked around and took lots of pictures and I just felt at peace about everything, finally.
Near the cemetery is a train depot, with active trains going in and out of town. My dad LOVED trains, so this was just the icing on the cake for me. It is good knowing that his ashes are resting in such a perfect place for him.
Over the next week I'll be posting pictures both past and present. I learned things over the long weekend that I want to share.
On a good note, burying my father was wonderful. Teary, weepy and so good for the soul. After holding on to his ashes for the last year and a half, it was time to honor his request to be buried in Colorado. I feel closure and healed and like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. My dad is buried in a beautiful cemetery with a babbling stream and ponds filled with frogs and cattails and a huge fish. We walked around and took lots of pictures and I just felt at peace about everything, finally.
Near the cemetery is a train depot, with active trains going in and out of town. My dad LOVED trains, so this was just the icing on the cake for me. It is good knowing that his ashes are resting in such a perfect place for him.
Over the next week I'll be posting pictures both past and present. I learned things over the long weekend that I want to share.
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7 Comments:
I'm glad to hear that it was such a nice experience for you.
I really can't think of anything else to say. Well, nothing that isn't funny and wouldn't ruin the specialness of it. I don't want to do that.
Dear Sam,
I hope this trip made it easier for you dealing with the loss of your dad. Think about the amazing memories you guys share, even with the blogging!
Speaking of family: how's El Pollo?
{big hug}
S
Sam, I knew that your Dad
died very close to my Dad.
I didn't, of course, know
that you held on to the ashes for a year and a half, as I have.
Our burial is scheduled for mid-August, and although I felt comfortable keeping my Dad's ashes with me, I also
am ready to bury him in our family cemetery.
Have to honour their wishes, and your Dad's resting place sounds so
beautiful.
I'm ready too, Sam.
With love,
Cathi in Canada (still:)
I'm glad you got the closure, and that his final resting spot is so perfect for him!
I didn't get to blog at all this weekend, so I didn't even realize you were posting from CO. Looking forward to all the pictures!
Glad to know you are home and your dad is near the trains that he so much loved. I am sending you good thoughts and big hugs.
Sorry to hear "the friend" never acknowledged in any way about what you were doing.
I am glad you are at peace with finally being able to do this...
i love this post, Sam. i know how important and fulfilling it can be to finally be at peace when it comes to stuff like this. it can be really comforting to know that your loved one would approve.
we were really relieved that my dad died at home. it was his last request -- "please don't let me die in a hospital!" -- and we were luckily able to fulfill that wish for him.
sounds like you found a perfect spot. i love trains, too. it sounds beautiful.
lots of virtual {{{{hugs}}}} for you today. :)
CONGRATS on the job!! YAY!!!!
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